16
Oct

How to Have Great Sex after a Sex Drought!

2017-10-17 04:38:37 |
118 Times |

Dry spells don't mean the end of life down below. It's true that when it's been awhile since you you've had sex, it can feel like it will never happen again. Which, we assure you that it will. Whether you're single, in a long distance relationship or just trying to connect with a long-term partner, we'll tell you how you can reboot your sex life! So, let's get you laid – it’s been so long…

Dry spells don't mean the end of life down below. It's true that when it's been awhile since you you've had sex, it can feel like it will never happen again. Which, we assure you that it will. Whether you're single, in a long distance relationship or just trying to connect with a long-term partner, we'll tell you how you can reboot your sex life! So, let's get you laid – it’s been so long…

1. Don’t go for the booty right away!

Foreplay is really important. Women produce a hormone called oxytocin which is responsible for bonding and trust through physical, mental& emotional foreplay. Foreplay will put you both in the mood for sex, but most importantly, will make that emotional connection that has been missing for so long…

2. Just relax!

It's only legit to be nervous making a connection with your partner after a long time. Just know that sex doesn't have to be perfect, it can be messy though! Stress and worry are the things that will dampen the mood and kill every desire to have sex. Keeping all worries aside, focus on giving and receiving pleasure. Focus on positive things – things that are meaningful, and the physical connection will eventually follow.

3. Get a "sexover"

Yes, you guessed it – a makeover only to make you look & feel more sexy and desirable! Groom your armpits, lady bits, hands and legs. Stock up on a few lacy lingerie – but of course, don’t break the bank, because we are all for saving money at those departments. Get a mani-pedi. If you haven’t had a haircut, get that done too. Your objective is to exude sexiness and to tell him that you look after yourself pretty well. Because guess what, looking good on the outside helps you feel good on the inside too. When you look sexy, you feel sexy!

4. Take a trip together

Nothing spices up your sex life like travel. Just a simple change of venue and beautiful landscapes transport the mind and makes your partner seem like a whole new person. Whether you want to go on a week-long vacay or have a weekend staycation in a local B&B – the thing is you’re out of your mundane routine, no worry of your pesky neighbors or of doing a pile of laundry.

5. Go on a romantic date

In a long term relationship, sex can get boring. Having date night in a fancy restaurant, or even just pizza and a bottle of wine in your own living room is a great way to slow down, reconnect and prepare for sex mentally & physiologically. Planning it properly beforehand will make it for a nice way to transition from a busy day to a sexy evening. Take your time because the goal is to avoid quickie sex...

6. Have a solo masturbation session

Masturbation is a great way to get to know your body, and a lot of women underestimate this. Studies reveal that there's still a huge number of women who've never had an orgasm, and this is a great way to educate yourself on sexual pleasure with your body as the template.Every man wants his woman to be sexually fulfilled but he doesn't always know how to please you, only you know that... So sharing what you know about your body will be a big plus when reigniting your sex life! Men secretly love the fact that you know how to pleasure yourself – believe it or no, it turns him on!

7. Take the lead

Men love it when women take the initiative with sex. The traditional stereotype is that men are the ones with the greater sex drives and women are usually the ones who need convincing, or just have an attitude of “do it to get it over with”. If you take the lead and make it all about him, he’ll realize that you really care about banishing the dry spell. Try giving him oral until he can't take it, then switch to a hot back massage. Get on top of him so he knows who's boss!

8. Take a sexy shower together!

Take a shower together and literally pour water over the dry spell! Lather up your bodies up against each other. Make a romantic bubble bath and invite him for a dip – chances are he won't say no if you're waiting for him in there with your body and hair soaking wet. The key to breaking a dry spell is to do something out of the ordinary to signal that enough is enough!

9. Spice it up!

If you're tired of your mundane sex routine, it's time to take it outside the bedroom. Have sex in the backseat of a car, on the kitchen counter or on the stairs. Think more adventure. If you've always romanticized about having sex outdoors, start with your balcony and work your way up to more racy locations... What matters most is the thrill of having sex in new places – and in return, you also learn a few new sex moves to go with ‘em!

Leave a comment

2 Comments

  • Comment Link 2017-10-18 17:36:03 Posted ByRoundOnmug

    Howdy friends I apologize if I create off-topic But I some time ago had to seek out a detailed post about ways to write essays relating to your university. I just found a superb post. Probably a person else will will need this information. http://biometsbd.com/2016/08/27/quick-custom-cheap-essay-6/ By the way, even though I was interested in this short article, I learned that some people decide to purchase house works, compositions, papers and articles. I usually do not know how protected it truly is and what good quality might be obtained inside the end. Who faced this situation, create, you write or invest in? Had been you caught by a helper for this?

  • Comment Link 2017-10-28 15:04:55 Posted ByCharlestub

    Bro, need a hand with 1 question right here. Skipped handful of classes at university, attempting to have back on track. Stumbled upon this http://www.suryadwikamandiri.com/essay-writing-service/the-different-sorts-of-essays-that-on-the-web-3/ http://www.vanexpert.fr/admission-application-and-academic-essays-5/ http://www.inaciobento.com/the-categories-of-essays-that-you-could-procure/ Appears a bit suspicious, but far better than other choices I identified. Any thoughts?

Make sure you enter the (*) required information where indicated. HTML code is not allowed.